Thinking about surprising your lover with something really cool this Valentine’s Day? Tired of giving the same old gift and getting the same old reaction? Need to spice up your relationship but have been waiting for a good time to do it? Well there is no time like Valentine’s Day. It’s that one day of the year you can call it yours and your lover’s day alone. Tell your friends your busy, if you have kids call in the sitter and take the phone off the hook ‘cos Valentine’s is about to get hot and steamy.

We know that having on sex on Valentine’s is probably pretty common. You might even say it goes hand in hand with the event for those who are already ‘doing the deed’. But if you’re tired of the same old routine, a slap here, a tweak there and a tickle on your you know where, then take the initiative and plan for a Valentine’s that is going to blow your minds. What you need for good sex is some sheer abandon, an adult party plan needs to be put in place. Forget your inhibitions; forget you feel like what you are doing looks silly. Get back to exploring and channel some of the excitement you felt when you first got together. A fantastic way to lose yourself in the moment and really let go is by dressing up and feeling sexy.

Everyone loves to feel sexy, if you say you don’t your lying. Nothing feels quite as empowering as wearing some sexy lingerie or something a little more dominatrix like wet look latex. Imagine the surprise, and the delight, of your partner as you pounce on them as they return home from work, clad in some of the sexiest, and naughtiest stuff you could find. You can play whatever role that gets you in the mood. A damsel in distress, a policewoman, a seductress or a tramp or some kind of bedroom super heroine. The only thing that can hold you back now is your imagination and it’s time to let it take over and fly, straight into the arms of your lover. If you’re stuck for party ideas for adults to play together, or for each other, then think about hosting an adult party and get some ideas from your girlfriends.

You can make this Valentine’s Day one to lustily enjoy and one that your lover won’t EVER forget. Come on, what are you waiting for?